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101 in 1001 - status update!

101 in 1001 - status update!

Since it’s been a few months, thought it would be time to check in on how my 101 in 1001 list is going. Re-reading it, some of these were a bit of a reach (aka, if in 2ish years I’m still in Manhattan, there is no way I am getting a dog,) while others are some fun ones to keep in mind and plan around. Updates below! (and it’s not too late for you to start one for yourself - it was a surprisingly fun activity that has pushed me outside of my comfort zone.)

Here goes… as of September 23:

Starts: February 9, 2018

Ends: November 6, 2020

  1. Reconnect with my Spanish host family - exchanged Mother’s Day and birthday Facebook messages with my host sister who shared updates from my now 73ish years old host mom

  2. Send fifty handwritten notes - 6 that I’ve tracked so far...

  3. Send a Christmas card/letter

  4. Follow up with mentors from college - Done during April and May 2018. (A reconnection happened just as I was needing advice during my job transition process. Meant to be!) - also, will be done continuously

  5. Mail someone a surprise package (In progress...shhhh…)

  6. Throw someone a surprise party

  7. Maintain an excel sheet of family/friends birthdays and addresses - in progress!

  8. Treat my parents to dinner

  9. Invest in new bedding

  10. Get framed art/photos in the apartment - Done August 2018

  11. Wake up at 5:30 a.m. five days a week - to journal, exercise, make a hot breakfast, etc.

  12. Start using coupons at the grocery store

  13. Learn how to tie a tie

  14. Take a spontaneous trip

  15. Visit two National Parks

  16. Go on a trip with my siblings

  17. Take a solo trip

  18. Go to Canada

  19. See four new baseball stadiums to check off my list - Yankee Stadium: Braves vs Yankees on July 4, 2018; Target Field: Twins vs Rays on July 13, 2018; SunTrust Park: Braves vs Red Sox on September 3, 2018; Citi Field: Braves vs Mets on September 25, 2018

  20. Go to the Hamptons

  21. Go to a vineyard - Arrington Vineyards in Nashville during Hailey’s Bachelorette weekened (May 27, 2018)

  22. Visit Asheville

  23. Go to Iceland

  24. Get a real massage

  25. Stretch daily for two weeks

  26. Learn to French braid

  27. Wear my hair naturally 7 days in a row -  May 6-12 - and almost daily now! (sad how this is actually big progress for me…)

  28. Go a month (maybe a year?) without Facebook

  29. Run a 5k - Ran the LVHN Via Marathon 5K on September 8, and placed 3rd in my age group!

  30. Attend the same workout class regularly (at least for a month)

  31. Learn to ski

  32. Achieve a personal fitness goal

  33. Find a signature fragrance (that isn’t Bath & Body Works, ha!)

  34. Take a ceramics class

  35. Get set up on a blind date (not an app meetup)

  36. Take a latte art class

  37. Kiss under mistletoe

  38. Attend a black tie event

  39. Go to a comedy show

  40. Go skinny dipping

  41. Watch 5 classic films for the first time - Pride and Prejudice on September 22, 2018

  42. Host a brunch at home for friends

  43. Practice hand-lettering

  44. Have a “pinch me” moment

  45. Take a cooking class

  46. Cook 20 new recipes - 1. Spicy Chicken Avocado Burgers, 2. Brussels Sprout and Sausage Parsnips Pasta, 3. Shredded Harissa Chicken

  47. Try a new restaurant during Restaurant Week

  48. Finish Whole30 x 3 - 1. January 20-February 19, 2018

  49. Have breakfast at Tiffany’s

  50. Host a dinner party (with no pre-prepared food!)

  51. Earn a promotion - Started a new, higher-level job on May 30, 2018

  52. Redesign the blog

  53. Join a blogger network

  54. Triple my blog views

  55. Hold a leadership position in a professional organization - co-chair for PRSSA at PRSA New York; VP: Communications for NYC Delta Gamma Alumnae

  56. Set a five to seven-year “plan” (work goals, financial goals, etc.)

  57. Have a sponsored post on the blog

  58. Establish and maintain an editorial/social calendar for my blog

  59. Publish five freelance articles

  60. Take two classes/certifications - Currently taking Spanish at the Berges Institute

  61. Produce a logo for the blog

  62. Watch 3 documentaries - 1. Won’t You Be My Neighbor?, June 30, 2018,

  63. Spend 24 hours completely unplugged - no personal/work phone, email, social media, TV

  64. Save $10 for every goal completed - need to start moving $$ over!

  65. Inspire someone to create their own 101 in 1001 list - Kathryn, Victoria Leigh, Marley + roomies

  66. Read 50 books - 1. The Defining Decade, 2. Hey Ladies!, 3. Playing with Matches, 4. Girls in White Dresses, 5. A Place for Us, 6. The Vacationers

  67. Listen to 50 Ted Talks

  68. Actually stick to, and finish, a devotional book

  69. Join a book club

  70. Try something new that intimidates me

  71. Do taxes on my own - March 2018

  72. Get coffee with 3 people who inspire me (that I don’t know)

  73. Read for thirty minutes every night for one month

  74. Join a church in NYC

  75. Get involved with a nonprofit organization - Certified City Meals on Wheels NYC volunteer as of February 2018

  76. Find a (sustainable) way to keep my Spanish fresh

  77. Throw away/donate 30 things and do not replace them

  78. Build and maintain a budget three months in a row (starting a healthy habit for my wallet…)

  79. Learn how to actually fold fitted sheets

  80. Completely declutter my stuff that’s at my parent’s house

  81. Clean up my cell phone contacts

  82. Purge iPhoto

  83. Clean up my MacBook Pro from college

  84. Pay off credit cards in full

  85. Start a 401K - contributing 10% as of June 2018 (it hurts now but will be worth it!!)

  86. Go one month without buying coffee at Starbucks/Pret

  87. Unsubscribe from email lists and newsletters I don’t read/care about

  88. Eat at a restaurant alone (no phone as a crutch)

  89. Buy coffee for the person behind me

  90. Be blunt when I’d normally be quiet

  91. Donate blood - donated on September 11

  92. Donate my hair

  93. Vote in a non-presidential election - Done! Voted in the PA Primary on May 15, 2018), and the NY Primary on September 13 (officially a NY resident as of July)

  94. Go to an NFL game (never been!)

  95. See an NBA game (never been!)

  96. Get a dog

  97. Attend a march

  98. Go to a movie alone - saw Three Identical Strangers, July 2018

  99. Have a picnic

  100. Go to the ballet

  101. Go to the opera

Travel Tuesday: Panama!

Travel Tuesday: Panama!

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